A reader writes:
Three months ago I started a new job and I really love it. My team is great, the people are lovely, and the work is exciting.
However, I’m struggling with a tradition known as Fat Friday. When I started it seemed to be once a month or so, but now it is every Friday — we’re all told to bring food in to share (and it is frowned on not to). There are themes, such as pastry week, meat feast, etc. The food is all laid out