A reader writes:
I need some advice regarding a coworker. I guess you could say she is my “de facto” supervisor, but technically not my supervisor on paper. Anyway, she is becoming very needy and dependent on me, and it is making me uncomfortable.
Here is some background information: I am 21 and she is 29, and we work in an office setting. She constantly asks me for personal favors, while I have never asked her for anything. Let me list out the things she’s asked of me, and the stuff I